Ladies, take your pick?

I like both, as long as he acts appropriately according to the situation. In public, I like my man to be well-mannered, polite; but not necesarrily meek. Meek means pive and submissive, that's more like a woman's trait (generally speaking). Men definitely needs to show that he respects and love his mom and family. It makes us woman realize that if you have that much respect and love for your family, then you would do the same if you we're to have your own and we respect you for that. Guys, please don't let your woman step all over you, make sure to keep us in check at all times, that's how you train us not to step all over you. MEEK guys are usually the victim of this kind of relationship. Now, behind close door is a different story; that's the time where I want you to be MACHO. Being macho does not necessarily mean that you have to be buff or super good looking, NO, it means that you have to be CONFIDENT. There is nothing ier than when a man is confident, but NOT Y. Make sure you know the difference between the two. Confidence makes you mysterious, which drives most woman crazy! Why? Because we're always wondering, what is it that you have that some men don't and we're just dying to find out. I hope that helps your question.