Feel empty, like I have lost my identity & lonely. Suicide has crossed my mind...?

I'm only 16 years old and I havent gone through the things you have had to go through. And i really dont have an answer for you..i just have ideas..and comming from a teenager may be a little hard for u to take seriously..but its worth a shot! lol ..i just really have a heart for people and reading this just makes me hurt for you and i dont even know u! i just wish i could help u or give u an answer that would change ur life, but im not God..and even though i dont know u ..i am sorry for how u are feeling..i would recommend seeing a counselor..i see a counselor on a regular basis and i am on antidepressant medications and they have made such a difference in my life. but by just taking medicine, thats not gonna help your problems..thats why id also recommend u seeing a counselor..i bet u are a beautiful person with a great heart. you have to find urself and you have to realize how good and special you are, before a man sees that in you. when u see that maybe everything will fall in place. i dont have the answers to everything..i wish i did though! and maybe counseling just isnt for u...but maybe its worth a shot. i wish u the best!