Monday, January 9, 2012

Relationship that will last forever?

While you're looking for comfort, the reality is that you both are about to go through some big changes and in the next few years you may never even recognize each other. You think you'll die without him but you won't. You're in puppy love now. If you can't last over a distance then it's not meant to be. My fiance and I have always had a long distance relationship (over 900 miles while I was in college) and guess what? It worked out. You may not want to be with anyone else because you haven't met anyone else yet. You aren't ready for marriage anyway. Marriage involves bills, children, dealing with sickness, taking care of a house, having somewhere to stay, having stable job(s), being a responsible adult... you're not ready for that no matter how much you think you are. You'll cry and miss him but life will go on. Just go through life and don't expect that you will always feel this way. There's nothing wrong with emails, sending cards and phone calls to keep the communication lines going between you two but don't plan your life around this guy. You're still very young and have a lot more left to do in your life. You probably think I'm mean and totally wrong but I'm honestly telling you the truth. You don't think so now, but you will be able to get over him if it doesn't work out... and if it doesn't work out your life is NOT over.

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